Feel seen, understood, and supported.
Grief shapes everything...
How we see ourselves, how we move through life, and how we connect with others. For many grieving moms, it brings a quiet unraveling of friendships and routines that feels like another layer of silent grief..
But grief also calls us to grow. To shed who we were and gently become who we are now , not because we are broken, but because we are expanding.
And the good news?
you don't have to do it alone!
Welcome to The Discover HERS Community
Discover HERS is a space for this journey, where your grief is honored, your child’s memory is safe, and you can heal, breathe, and belong among women who understand.
WHAT? YES PLEASE!
Who is this for?
Discover HERS is for grieving moms who feel tender, weary, and alone. Moms who long for a safe, nurturing space where they can gently heal, honor their grief, remember their child, and begin to reconnect with themselves.
This is a space for those ready to take quiet steps toward meaning and hope again, in their own time and in their own way.
What You'll Gain
Feel seen, understood, and supported
They will no longer feel so alone in their grief. They will know there is a safe, compassionate community where they are accepted exactly as they are, and where their child’s memory is always welcome.
Experience moments of emotional relief and lightness
Through gentle practices and monthly gatherings, they will begin to release some of the emotional weight they’ve been carrying and experience moments of calm, peace, and spaciousness.
Reconnect with themselves and their inner guidance
They will start to trust themselves again, finding new ways to honor their grief while reconnecting with their own heart, intuition, and desires, gently, without pressure.
Begin to see hope and meaning beyond the pain
They will recognize that their grief story isn’t about “moving on” but about becoming ,and will begin to glimpse hope and meaning as part of their ongoing journey.
Sophia's Story
After the death of her son Xander, Sophia found herself completely adrift. Grief didn’t just break her heart, it reshaped her entire world.
She struggled with overwhelming emotions, exhaustion, and isolation as friends and familiar routines quietly fell away. She wasn’t just grieving the loss of her child; she was also grieving the loss of connection, identity, and the life she thought she’d return to.
For a long time, Sophia didn’t know where to turn. The support groups she encountered felt either too clinical or too focused on moving on, and nothing seemed to hold space for what she was actually feeling: raw, tender, and deeply changed. She longed for a place where her grief could be honored, her child remembered, and where there was no rush or pressure to be “better.”
Through her own healing journey, including energy work, meditation, spiritual practices, and leaning into the deeper lessons grief offers. Sophia discovered that grief itself was leading her somewhere new. Not back to who she used to be, but forward into who she was becoming.
It’s from this lived experience that Discover HERS was created: a sanctuary for moms who feel exhausted, isolated, and unsure how to navigate life after loss. Sophia now helps grieving moms feel gently supported, reconnect with themselves, and rediscover hope, not by fixing their grief, but by walking with it, honoring it, and slowly letting light return.
Community Investment
LET'S RECAP
Sponsor a Mama,
Xander’s Love Gift
In honor of Xander’s loving, generous spirit, you can sponsor a grieving mama’s 6-month membership in Discover HERS and provide her with healing, support, and community even if she can’t afford it herself.
Need some peace of mind?
You can cancel any time from a monthly subscription. However, there are no refunds on annual.
Frequently Asked Questions
I’m overwhelmed and not sure I can keep up with another program or community right now. Is this right for me?
I’m not sure I can afford this right now. What makes it worth the monthly cost?
What if I don’t feel ready to talk or share my story?
I’m new to meditation and don’t know if I’ll be able to participate.
Hey, I'm Sophia Mecum
Holistic Grief Practitioner &
Certified Grief Educator
As a grieving mom, I know what it’s like to walk through a loss that shakes your entire world. After the death of my son Xander, I found myself navigating not just heartbreak, but the quiet unraveling of friendships, routines, and my very sense of identity.
That experience became the foundation of the work I now do with grieving moms.
I’ve sat with the heaviness, wondering if I’d ever feel whole again. But I also know healing is possible, not by forgetting, but by softening the pain, one layer at a time. By learning to breathe again, trust again, and live from a place of light and connection.
Through my intuitive gifts and energy-healing tools, I help grieving moms gently release the emotional weight they’ve been carrying in their body, heart, and spirit.
So they can heal gently, embrace their story with compassion, and reconnect with life in a way that feels meaningful and true.
This isn’t about leading anyone out of grief, it’s about walking beside them, creating a space where grief is honored, their child’s memory is cherished, and their healing is supported at their own pace.
Community Investment
LET'S RECAP
Sponsor a Mama,
Xander’s Love Gift
In honor of Xander’s loving, generous spirit, you can sponsor a grieving mama’s 6-month membership in Discover HERS and provide her with healing, support, and community even if she can’t afford it herself.